A quick and easy way to discover the secret ways you or your partner express your love for each other is to do this simple visual personality test.
All you need is to carefully observe the image that you see below and write down the first thing you notice. Then read on to see what this test reveals about the secret way you express love to your partner.
1. The house
If the first thing you saw was the house, home and security are very important to you. You like to get out of town from time to time, but if you want to feel well-rested, refreshed, and happy, you need to spend time at home, surrounded by people and things you appreciate. You are like the living embodiment of a quilted woolen blanket in front of a hot fire.
The secret way you say “I love you” is by feeding the people you care about. You are always baking or cooking something, and even when you have time to prepare something, nothing makes you happier than finding something to eat in your bag and giving it to someone who needs it. Feed them in your personal and secret way of letting them know how much you love them.
2. The moon
If you looked at the moon, you are a dreamer at heart. You may find yourself totally grounded and responsible, and while it’s true, you’ve never managed to get rid of your big sensitivities. You love writing, dancing, or appreciating both forms of art when other people share them with the world. The spiritual and creative side of the world is what inspires and drives you.
The secret way you say “I love you” is through artistic expression. You can’t help but embody your loved one in every piece of work you complete. If it’s a poem, maybe it’s dedicated to him; if it’s a painting, you paint the grass the color of his eyes. You may not be proclaiming your love out loud from the top of a mountain, but in your mind it is everywhere. For you, there is no other way to be.
3. The Wolf
If the first thing you saw was the wolf, you are a passionate person. You love the carnal, and you inhale them with pleasure. You are the kind of guy who starts a party just by walking into a room. You always have a venue at your disposal, and when friends approach you, you have no problem preparing dinner for everyone effortlessly while you tell them stories about your latest romantic getaways with your loved one.
The secret way you say “I love you” is through physical contact. For you, saying these words is meaningless when you can gently nibble someone on the ear. After all, a physical touch speaks much louder than words. Small and sweet gestures are your way of telling the one you love how much they mean to you.
4. The trees
In case you saw the trees in the image, you are a person who has been hurt before. When it comes to love, you carry emotional baggage of your own. That said, you are someone who feels things a little more than others. So what might be boring for one person could affect you for days. You still have hope, but you’ve been hurt, and it shows.
The secret way you say “I love you” is by opening up to others. Making yourself emotionally vulnerable to your partner is the best way to establish true intimacy, and you know how to do it. Saying “I love you” and doing nice things is okay, but you’re not really in love until you share your hopes and fears with your partner. It may seem small, but even the smallest emotional availability on your part is a tremendous act of love.
5. The face
Finally, if the first thing you saw was the face, you are a person known to be very intuitive about others, someone who dreams big and can set and achieve serious goals. While everyone else is worrying about the details, you fabricate a whole picture so carefully rendered that you don’t have to worry about anything else; you know everything will work out as it should. You are a natural leader, and you can show it calmly.
The secret way you say “I love you” is to find time to be with that person. It may sound like the opposite of romance, but the truth of the matter is that for you there is no better expression of love than putting someone’s name on your calendar, with specific and highly curated moments. You have so many things to do, that when you make it a priority, you not only show seriousness, but you say that you really love him. If it is worth it, you will realize that it is so.