“I had made reckless commitments to you and life took it upon itself to protest: I ask your forgiveness, as humbly as possible, not for leaving you, but for having stayed so long”
-Marguerite Yourcenar
That sentence is one of the saddest in all literature for different reasons:
- There is regret for the love that once existed.
- Announce a separation.
- Accept that it should have happened before.
No one is perfect enough not to hurt the person they love, but there is something incomprehensible about someone who no longer loves their partner and still stays in the relationship. Maybe it is not so easy to accept and you continue in denial or maybe things are more complicated than they seem, however, in an age where there is much more freedom to choose a partner, love should always be critical and so if your partner shows the following signs, and you also feel that he no longer cares about you, maybe it’s time to consider staying there.
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There’s no communication
It is natural that with the passage of time the messages are less frequent, that the talks are not as emotional and lasting as when they had so much to tell each other, so much to know about each other, but despite that, a healthy relationship always has a Open communication and willing to listen.
If the communication is one way, if you try in every way to make yourself heard and you receive no answers or only negative ones, it is your right to reconsider the whole relationship.
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They get bored together
Before doing nothing together was synonymous with fun. They knew that being in the same place could not be boring, but if now they only look for distractions to avoid talking or having quality time, there are problems.
There are couples who spend time together watching TV or checking their cell phones. They are together but the distance between them is abysmal. Isn’t it better to end something so toxic?
just talk about him
There are people who grew up being the center of attention and sometimes it is difficult to deal with them, but if your partner goes from worrying about both of you to only talking about things that concern him, it implies a distancing from the relationship, a change in his notion of “us” that interests him less and less.
Takes you away from your private life
This can be quite complicated and maybe before I introduced you to everyone. Friends, family, colleagues and more, but little by little if someone else comes into your life, there is nothing more than a few comments about those people. He may even tell you about them but never invite you to meet them or prefer to keep that part of his life away from you.
Sometimes things are not so bad. Many people go through difficult issues which is difficult to accept even with their partners. However it is important that they talk and see what is happening. If on the other hand, that fails, you should also not try to save something that is destined to fail.
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