When we start dating someone, or we are seeing each other but we don’t know if the thing is serious, it is normal to have doubts.
Will think of me? Will you want to see me? Did you really like me?
These questions are normal, and the truth is that it is not easy to answer them with certainty. What we can tell you is that if that special person for you has these details, he surely has you in his mind, and surely something about you likes him a lot.
1. Send you a message with an inside joke
If they already trust each other to have some internal codes, that in itself speaks volumes about how they started the relationship. But if also during the day, that person you like sends you a message that alludes to that inside joke… There’s a spark there!
2. He always surprises you with something you like
Giving chocolates may be cute, but it is certainly not original. Anyone can give a chocolate and look good… Who doesn’t like chocolate!?
But if the person you like arrives at the date just with that hottie that you had said is your favorite… That’s another story! Even more demonstrative is that he gives you something more special that you wanted, like a book or a plant for your house.
That means that he pays attention to you, he cares about knowing what you like and need, and above all, he wants to look good with you.
3. He asks you about things you’ve told him
When you see more or less often with someone, surely they talk about many things. Perhaps you have told that person that you had an important exam the next day, that you have argued with a friend about something, or simply that a few days ago you had a headache. Normal conversations.
If that person asks you the next day how everything is going with what you have told him, it is surely because he cares about you and thinks a lot about you.
4. Remember absurd details
When a person is very interested in another, they surely live every moment they spend together as a gift. Therefore, it is not surprising that he later remembers minute details. “That day you had your hair like this”, or “I loved the expression on your face when they told you what you liked”.
Remembering the smallest details of each day you spent together is a sign that he is truly interested in you.
5. He texts you even when he’s busy
Perhaps the greatest proof that a person really thinks of you is that they write you a message, even if it is a quick one, when they are busy. That means you’re not just the person he has in his spare time, but the one he thinks about all the time.
We all know that sometimes it is difficult to find time in the midst of the whirlwind of everyday life to write a WhatsAppbut if the person makes the effort… It is because he is really interested in you!
What other details do you think show that someone likes you?
Sources:
cosmopolitan