It is very common for a mistake to keep us on the brink of collapse. This is because our minds tend to remember the times we fail much better than the times we succeed. That is why sometimes it takes a small inconvenience in our lives for those memories to arrive like a snowball that grows out of control and hits our entire ego..
It is at times like this that it is almost impossible to love each other, but we must keep in mind that failure serves as a lesson to do better later, to improve and avoid mistakes in the future. It is a way to broaden our vision. Each mistake opens up the panorama a little more for us and it doesn’t matter if we fail once, twice or a thousand times, that is what will allow us to savor success in a better way.
Forgive yourself for not knowing what to do
If you want to show yourself that you love yourself, even in the worst of times, give yourself some love, respect, and self-esteem. Understand that it’s okay that you don’t know what to do, everyone else doesn’t either, even if they seem to. From your friend who seems like someone very successful to your grandfather who you see as the person who knows everything about life.
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There is nothing wrong with self-criticism, it is part of the road to success, otherwise how would you learn from your mistakes? However, keep in mind that you need to take a break from marking all your mistakes and sometimes you have to remember that those things are not the only things that define you.
transform the mistakes
Part of the path to success is using your mistakes and turning them into success stories. One example is the so-called Fucked up nights, in which different entrepreneurs and creatives meet in bars to talk about how they failed a thousand times before succeeding. They are not business master classes, they are closer to a stand-up in which they tell how failure paved the way to success.
Stop feeling like you’re a victim
Don’t let mistakes consume you. Turn your life around and go from being the victim to being victorious, even if it’s only in your mind. If you transform the way you see yourself, you’ll understand that failures shouldn’t paralyze you, but are a diversion from the topic. You will stop seeing the present as the only thing there is and your mind will always be focused on what is in the future.
They are small displays of self-love that will help you understand that life is more than the bad times. These will always be there, but it remains up to us if we become paralyzed before them or if we decide to act and change the situation forever.
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