Men rarely talk about their feelings. Therefore, if you want to know how he feels about you and what his intentions are, you should ask him directly or pay attention to his gestures and habits. This is what he says Patty Woodthe famous American psychologist expert in body language.
By observing their body language, we can better understand them and know what is going on in their heads. So pay attention to the following signs to find out if he is crazy about you or not.
1. Your pupils are dilated
Unless you’re in a dark place, it’s a sure sign that he loves you. According to Dr. Patti Wood: “Pupil dilation is a brain response to fascination with something”.
2. Raised eyebrows
It is a reflex and unconscious act that usually occurs when something surprises us or we like. Let’s say that it would serve to have the eyes more open and to be able to see it better.
3. Smile showing your teeth
According to Dr. Wood, “Men stop smiling that way after childhood unless something makes them extremely happy.”. When flirting, they do not usually show a sincere and transparent smile, but a sexier one, with the corners arched. But if when he is by your side he laughs without complexes, it is because you make him happy and he enjoys your company.
4. She licks her lips
When you feel attracted to someone, your brain tells your glands to produce more saliva and the body responds, according to Dr. Wood, “hydrating lips with this extra moisture.”
5. He stares at you
Nowadays, society tends to cool social and physical relationships, so if a person stares at you for a period of time, the most normal response is to feel uncomfortable. However, if this guy looks you straight in the face, he is not afraid of what people think and trusts you. He definitely likes you.
6. When he sees you, he sighs
A slow and deep breath. Why? Dr. Patti Wood explains that, “breathing this way makes your torso and chest swell, making your waist look slimmer and your body taller. Let’s just say it’s an unconscious way of showing that you have a good figure”.
7. He leans towards you when they talk
If he approaches you to listen to you well, even if there is no background noise or anything that bothers, it is because he is interested in what you say.
8. Put your arms in the shape of a pitcher
With this position he intends to show his virility and physical superiority over other boys so that you notice him. It would be, so to speak, a courtship ritual. According to Wood, this gesture demands attention.
9. Remove any dust or wrinkles from clothes
Starting a physical contact with some pretext is a sign that he feels a brutal attraction to you. Whether it’s to check if you respond well to his affection or to have you around, he likes you. And it shows like this.
10. Open your legs when sitting
By leaving his private parts more exposed, with what that entails, he means that he is willing to expose himself physically and mentally to you. He is conveying his confidence to you.
11. His pelvis is directed at you
This area of the body has a sexual component, which shows a clear interest in you.
12. Her toes too
The feet, and therefore the fingers, are related to the innate fight or flight response that is activated when we are in danger. For this reason, if he places them near you, it indicates that he does not want to escape but wants to stay by your side. As Dr. Patti Wood says: “The feet indicate where the heart wants to go”.
13. Cross your legs
If, when crossing them, his torso moves away from you, it may be a sign of disinterest. But if, on the contrary, he crosses his legs and leans his trunk towards you, he wants attention from you because he has a shy personality.
14. It approaches little by little
While you’re talking, he may slowly creep up on you to get as close as possible. You are definitely attracted to him. And a lot.
15. Talk without looking at your face
Wood points out that this may indicate that he wants to keep his options open and has no intention of being in a serious relationship with you. But let’s not be too quick to judge, as it can also mean that he is shy, that he is embarrassed or that he finds you imposing. If he asks a lot of questions about the topic of conversation, no matter how much he looks away or to the sides, he has an interest in you.
16. Neck touching
The neck and throat are a communicative and vulnerability symbol. That he touches his throat while talking can have two meanings: that he wants your first impression of him to be good or that he is dishonest.
17. Squeeze your hand tight
If, when shaking hands, he presses your hand against his, it only means that he wants you close to him. The same thing happens if he intertwines his fingers with yours. It indicates a clear intention of connection, physical and sentimental.
18. Brush your arm while they talk
This gesture indicates a call for attention to him. Either to impress you or to feel that you are listening to him. Pay attention to him.
19. Rub your leg surreptitiously
He brushes against your leg and quickly makes another gesture to cover it up. This contact is used to test what he feels. According to Wood, “maybe he’s just interested in having sex with you”. That is, it depends on how the friction is. If he’s slower and smiles as he walks away, it’s clear you’re driving him crazy.
20. Walk by your side
The way they walk when they are together tells a lot. I mean, if he’s always ahead, he may be more worried about him than you. And if he matches his steps to yours or constantly looks for you while you walk, he means that he loves you and cares about you.
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Sources:
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