Being deceived is very annoying and can make us feel betrayed depending on who tries to deceive us with their words (family, friends, partner, etc.). And the worst thing is that no one has control over others to anticipate and not fall for their lies. However, some experts affirm that there are techniques and ways to discover a liar.
According to these experts, the secret is knowing how to handle the most subtle attitudessuch as body language and the way people tell stories, since people communicate mostly non-verballysuch as facial expressions and body movements and postures.
To know if someone is lying to you, pay attention to these basic points.
The natural behavior of a person with whom you deal frequently must be studied and known in advance for this to work, because in this way you can compare it with the behavior of the moment in which you suspect that he is cheating on you.
pay attention to his gaze, especially when you are having a conversation. Hold it steady for a few seconds, then move it away to face the suspect again. Staring at you for too long or not looking at you at all when someone is telling you something important can be suspicious.
Body posture also says a lot. If the behavior is nervous or restless, or their body will not be aligned with yours (meaning that person doesn’t want to be around you), you may have reason to be suspicious. The feet are also a great indicator, for example, if they are pointing at you, they are paying attention to you and it is a sign that they do not want to avoid you.
Arms and hands say a lot about comfort. If they’re loose in plain sight, it shows that you’re comfortable with the situation and the conversation, if not, you’re not.
Other possibly suspicious factors include abnormal behavior, excessive pauses while giving explanations or when asking questions to be repeated. One way to know if he is lying is by looking at his pupils, if they are dilated, it is an indicator that he is lying.
Knowing these indicators and signs doesn’t guarantee that we’ll always catch the liar red-handed, but you can keep them in mind when talking to someone you think has reason to hide information from you. The best way to catch a liar is to get to know them ahead of time and tell the difference between their normal behavior and suspicious behavior.
Even so, there are very talented liars who would fool even the most skeptical, but these “tricks” can help you identify a lie among those closest to you.
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