On the TikTok network, a dating expert explains why splitting the bill can be a big mistake. It is about an old debate, where it is considered that in the first outing perhaps the best thing is that everyone pays their part.
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Her name is Nelly and her TikTok account is: @ask.nelly
She often answers questions that people ask her. However, she is also awaiting comments that are displayed. Also, she from various queries that she formulates in the videos that the web uploaded.
Many times there is talk of tips to win all his interest on the first date. Likewise, it is considered that there is still not enough trust in that initial meeting; reason why each one must pay the expenses of him.
However, the expert on these issues remains in the most traditional: on the first date the man pays the bills. She defends his position with some arguments that she considers should not be ignored.
Video capture from Tiktok account @ask.nelly
Why shouldn’t we split the bills?
In this regard, she says that she considers it unwise for men to think that they should not assume the payments. However, she believes that some basic principles of courtship and romantic encounters have been forgotten.
– If they don’t pay women for food, they aren’t gentlemen. In the first meeting they must show chivalry.
– It is very bad to leave the image of stingy. It is assumed that the man is a provider, that is what women look for.
– You do not pay the bill is a sign that the woman is not respected.
– It indicates that money is not enough and no woman wants to date a subject without resources.
– Not paying the bill indicates that the man does not make an effort, which is quite serious. Women value a man who goes the extra mile for them.
Also, it was commented how prudent it is to message after the first date. On the other hand, the video nelly raised controversy: there were users for and against. There was quite a bit of discussion and feedback.
People agree and others against
Everything Nelly said was highly commented, to the point that the video went viral. Those who agreed maintained that men should act with interest and full detachment.
Also, there was criticism: it was said that they were positions of an “interested woman”. At the same time, it was commented that there is a mistake: a meeting to eat should not be a first date, but do it on a walk or something without expenses.
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Do you agree with the reasons why you should not divide expenses in appointments? Well, if you want to know the information first hand, check out the Tiktok account: @ask.nelly
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