Many of us spend our lives trying to find love, but at some point we go through that plateau stage where nothing seems to happen. All the relationships we start are short-lived, end badly, and we no longer know where to go.
But there is something that all lovers assure: your soul mate appears when you are least looking for it. The equation is simple; because everything in this life comes only when we are prepared to receive it. Love is no exception.
So instead of looking for love under the rocks, you could focus on being ready to receive it. When you notice these 7 signs in your own life, don’t worry: you will be one step away from finding your soulmate.
1. You’ve stopped giving romantic love such a priority.
There comes a time in everyone’s life when they discover that romantic love is not the only kind of love in life.
If you feel happy about the love that your friends, your family and even your pet give you, and you feel that it fulfills you enough, that is a first sign that your heart is ready to receive romantic love.
It is that for a great love to come into your life, it must have the right place in your heart: an important one, but not the center of your life.
2. You found your place in the world
How do you know who to share your path with, if you don’t know where you’re going? Another essential sign that you are close to finding love is being sure of who you are and where you are going.
Having clear goals, and knowing your place in the world, will make it much easier for you to find a person who shares your vision and values.
3. You feel enough
If you have found your place in the world, and have done a long process of reflection, you will finally be at peace with yourself. This means that you will not feel that you need another person to fill you up; you alone are enough.
When you feel that you can face anything without the need to have someone by your side, then you are ready to find true love: a free and selfless love.
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4. You trust the laws of the Universe
The fact that you do not look for it does not mean that you believe that love does not exist for you. You have simply accepted that you cannot handle it your way, and have decided to trust what the Universe has planned for you.
If you have reached this level of tranquility regarding the subject, surely the love of your life is close.
5. You are in no hurry
Precisely, since you trust in the laws of the Universe, you are no longer in a hurry. You don’t do mental math about when you should find love so you can get married and have kids.
You enjoy the moment, and you don’t want to rush things. You know that everything is going to happen when it has to, and at the pace that is necessary.
6. You focus on what makes you happy
What you want is true love, not someone to hang out with. For a couple to be authentic, the two members have to be able to be themselves.
That is, your true love will only appear once you accept yourself as you are, and decide to be happy, no matter what others say. Once you stop trying to impress and focus on being happy, someone will show up who loves you just the way you are.
7. You see love everywhere
If you have all these characteristics, there is an unequivocal sign that love is about to knock on your door: you see it everywhere.
It turns out that when you’ve finally stopped looking for it, and almost forgotten about romantic love, you start seeing it everywhere. A friend who invites you to watch romantic movies, a happy couple in every corner, your Facebook is filled with lovers…
When those signs appear, just when you no longer thought about love, activate the radars: A great love is very close!
What do you think? Are you close to finding the most important love of your life?