When we move into a house, we generally pay attention to physical issues: that it is located in a certain place, with such access, with so many windows, so many rooms, etc.
But when we settle in, some details begin to appear that we had overlooked in those first short visits: things that do not work as they seemed, materials that are of poor quality, repairs that are necessary, and more. But beyond the physical, there is one factor that can make even the most beautiful mansion unbearable: the neighbors.
As much as a person likes to be in his world and not link up with the whole neighborhood or delve into everyone’s life, there is always an occasion when the neighbor makes himself present. It may be some common circumstance, an emergency or something that we just lack.
Being greeted when we ring the doorbell is great because it makes us feel more comfortable and improves the overall neighborhood vibe.
But this is not always the case. There are neighbors who are toxic people who can make you want to move. Learn to identify them.
5 signs that your neighbors are toxic people
They fight constantly
Couples who argue loudly, mothers who challenge children who cry nonstop, people who mistreat each other as if it were normal… These are some of the scenes that those who have had toxic neighbors may know. Sometimes, in addition, the walls are so thin that it seems that they are arguing in the living room itself. Of course, each person can do what they want inside their house, even develop bonds that do not seem healthy to one from the outside; but this can become very negative for those who live next door, since that energy circulates around them in a certain way.
they spy on you
The neighbor spying on the other is an image as frequent as it is ancient. There are people who constantly look at others, secretly or not, simply because they are curious or because they are bored. But this can be, in addition to being invasive, extremely annoying.
They speak ill of other people with you
Who has not ever come across that neighbor who always speaks ill of another who is not there? “He is dirty”, “he does not pay on time”, “he changes partners all the time” are some of the most frequent phrases heard from these people. In addition to being inappropriate, it can be annoying, uncomfortable, and even energetically very negative.
They do not greet you or they pretend to be misunderstood
Another trait of toxic neighbors is that they never answer when you greet them, if you ring their bell for an emergency they don’t answer, and they always act ignorant. More than “being in their world”, they do not have developed empathy and they are simply not interested in doing so.
They complain about everything
Finally, there are the neighbors who always complain when you meet them: about the building, the neighborhood, their family, the weather, everything… Life is a constant complaint. They are not interested in talking, but rather in discharging their bad energy.